it ok to not be ready
Please spread this shit like wildfire. People go on and sit through the whole experience and they’re uncomfortable because they just want to please their partner and they don’t tell them that they want to stop because they are not ready. It’s okay not to be ready.
I really like this comic, especially because the person on top actually pays attention to their partner’s responses and checks in actively. It shouldn’t be your sole responsibility to voice your discomfort, that can be hard for so many reasons including social pressures and past experiences with sexual assault. It’s so important to pay attention to your partner and to be active with consent because of this. And I love that the person on top assures the other person that it’s okay to stop, it’s nothing to apologize for. Good art about consent just gives me a lot of feelings okay?
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The Incredible Attention Span of Severus Snape…
dude you’ve been “teaching” there since you were 21
and you just now noticed
Dumbledore’s magnificent double agent ladies and gentlemen